Are you trying everything you can to salvage the relationship with your wife? Are starting to feel like the situation is hopeless? Understand that no situation is impossible, but it's very likely that you're making some huge mistakes that are pushing her farther away.
Let's go over the what you need to do (and not do) in order to get your wife back in your arms where she belongs.
The main reason most guys fail miserably when trying to win back their wife is because they are behaving in an overly anxious and desperate manner.
You know what I'm talking about...
trying to talk her into being with you, telling her you'll change if she will only give you a 2nd chance, love letters, showing up where she is, late night calls, etc.
I don't mean to sound harsh, but your ex is turned off by this.
Women want a strong and independent man...
not someone who throws themselves at her.
Even if you're not doing the exact behavior mentioned above, if you're feeling anxious and needy, your wife is going to sense this.
Women have great intuition and will sense your desperation.
The best thing you can do is get your head clear and stop contacting her for a while.
At least 2 weeks, maybe more.
You want to show that you're doing fine without her and you're just doing your own thing.
Under no circumstances should you cave in during a moment of weakness and drunk dial her in the middle of the night! This approach works like a charm.
Just like it is natural for her to resist you when she feels like you're pushing, the opposite is also true...
she will naturally be attracted to you when she shes you're no longer available 24/7.
You've gone from a being needy and weak to being strong and independent.
These qualities are very attractive to all women, including your ex.
Working with human nature instead of against it is how to get your wife back.
It will take some self discipline to pull this off, but the results are worth it.