If you still have feelings for your ex-hubby, you probably want to know where you stand with him.
Is it possible to get him back? Yes, it's possible, but not easy.
Here's some signs that he's trying to rekindle the old flame: He Always Has Cologne On When You Two See Each Other If he smells like he just sprayed on some romantic and sexy cologne each time he stops by or you meet him somewhere, this is a huge giveaway that he's still actively trying to attract you to him.
This is even more so the case if he always wears nice button-up shirts around you, has his hair neatly styled, is fresh-shaven, etc.
He's trying to win you over and seduce you all over again.
He Hugs You Each Time You Part Ways If he wants to be affectionate, at least a little, each time he greets you or says goodbye, he's still wanting to be close to you physically.
It's safe to assume that he's also still thinking about you sexually on a regular basis.
If You Mention Something You Saw in a Store Somewhere, He Buys it For You The reason he'll do this more often than not if the situation arises? Because it provides him with the opportunity to impress you, and also an excuse to come over and see you when he presents the gift.
He Makes up Ailments, Activities, etc.
on Behalf of Your Children Just So He Has an Excuse to Stop By And if You Don't Have Children, he Just Comes up With Whatever He Can To Visit You All the Time.
He might be extremely creative and sneaky, or incredibly obvious and not-so-sneaky in his attempts to keep seeing you on a regular basis.
Point this out as a joke at first, and hopefully he'll get the hint without being too hurt or embarrassed.
Unless, of course, you enjoy the attention and seeing him so often.
In which case, enjoy it! Every Day, He Sends You A Text Message, Calls You, or Both If communication with the ex-hubby via cellphone is a daily occurrence and a certainty, you definitely have an ex who's still in love with you and can't let go.
It might be wise to have a discussion with him about this; be gentle and tactful if you no longer feel the same way, and express your desire to do things right this time so they last if you do actually feel the same way and want to try being together again.
He Still Talks to Your Mother and Your Friends If he stayed in touch with your family members and still speaks to them more often than you do, this all but proves he's madly in love with you.
No man who isn't in love would ever want to spend hours weekly on the phone with their ex mother-in-law.
He Hates Every Guy You've Tried to Date Since the Divorce This little glitch is predictable behavior since by now you've hopefully admitted to yourself that he's still in love with you.
If you're still dating someone else, break it off if you still want your ex husband.
Or let your ex down gently while you attempt to move on.
You can shake his obsessive behavior a bit at a time, and move on with your life.