It is often hard to let go of a broken relationship.
Love will often remain for your ex long after you have experienced a breakup, leaving you confused on what to do next.
Do you still love your ex? Here are some ways you can tell for sure.
You Need To Know The most glaring indicator is that you remain obsessed with your ex.
If you find yourself constantly asking questions about your ex's whereabouts or activities then you obviously still have a significant interest in them.
You might find yourself talking to parents, or even people you don't know just to get the latest scoop on your ex lover.
When you are constantly trying to find out information about your ex, you are either 1) insanely jealous or 2) your love for them is still alive.
Too Much Effort Are you spending a ridiculous amount of time trying to look great for your ex.
If you are devoting extra time on your appearance or agenda because you are considering your ex's perception of you, then you are probably still carrying strong feelings for them.
Some other examples of this behavior include frequenting places where you might see your ex, buying clothes or other items you think they may like, or even avoiding situations where they could see you at your worst.
Say Anything Becoming overly submissive with your ex is another behavior that displays lingering love.
You feel like you can reconnect with your ex by supporting everything they do or say, even if you have issues with it.
This can include sticking up for the them to family, going out of your way to compliment them, or simply saying "yes" to anything they ask of you.
Part of love is making sacrifices, and submissive behavior shows that you will do anything to rebuild the old love of your relationship- this is not healthy.
You need to have a confident attitude with regards to yourself and your ex.
Are you still in love with your ex? You shouldn't be embarrassed about having feelings for your ex, but you should have a plan to address the issue.
Force yourself to make a decision to either move on with your life or focus on getting your ex back.
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