Your ex is like a little kid.
He/she enjoys attention, and enjoys you going crazy and out of your way over them.
All of this attention makes your ex act like a little brat, and then he/she thinks that you are below them all of a sudden.
So what happens then? Well, all of the love, all of the time spent together, all of the things you once shared...
mean nothing! So how do you undo all of this? How do you stop your ex from acting cold towards you? How do you undo a breakup, and get your ex wanting you more than he/she ever did before? Read on to find out how you can get your ex back once and for all, no matter what...
Give space, and lot's of it - As mentioned, your ex is like a little kid...
only thing is a child will cry when you leave the room...
or when you are not around right? Now that's what you need your ex to do! If you are always around, your ex could care less.
But the instant you remove yourself from the picture, this is when you will actually snag your ex into constantly thinking about you.
Date someone else - Well, like a family, when a new baby arrives...
the first child gets really jealous and feels left out! They act up because of this, because they don't like this, and they go nuts to get the parents attention again.
You are the parent in this scenario, and you need to gain this kind of control.
To do this, you have to date someone else, and preferably someone your ex knows.
This will make your ex jealous and will drive him/her nuts for you to notice them again.
The idea of you with someone else, and your attention, time, love etc...
given to someone else will not sit well with your ex.
Don't be easy - In the meantime, you will notice your ex suddenly having a change of attitude towards you, and he/she may even be getting desperate to get you back.
But what you must NOT do is answer all of the calls, respond to the emails etc...
and if your ex asks to see you, don't just give in and do as he/she wants.
Instead, play hard to get, and this will make your ex want you back once and for all, because you are no longer easy.
Since people want what they cannot have, and especially want things that are harder to get, your ex will not even be able to resist you anymore.