Why is it that when you go through a break up and realize you still love your ex boyfriend, most people will tell you to forget about him and move on? That's typically the advice you'll be given by your well meaning friends and family.
They'll tell you that since the relationship didn't work, he's just not the guy for you and you need to find someone else.
That's so much easier said than done.
If you still love him, don't even consider not trying to win him back.
Love just doesn't come along everyday.
With the right get boyfriend back tips, you can secure that second chance you want with the man you adore.
The first get boyfriend back tip that many women have found to be highly effective is to accept the break up, for now.
Your first inclination is going to be to try and win him back by crying and pleading with him.
If you've told him that he's the only man for you or that you can't live without him, you've actually hurt your own chances of a reunion with him.
Men don't find this kind of behavior romantic the way we do.
They won't be touched by your proclamation of undying love.
He'll think you're desperate and emotionally unstable.
If you're serious about getting him back, tell him that you're okay with the break up and look like you mean it.
That means you need to control your emotions and stop crying around him.
This can't be stressed enough.
It's that important.
Now you need to take a trip down memory lane and think about what your boyfriend loved the most about you.
There had to have been something that he just found irresistible.
Once you determine what that is, you are going to get to work focusing on that quality.
Bring it to the forefront again.
The insight that you gained while you were dating your ex, is going to be your secret weapon to get him back.
You know exactly what he likes and doesn't like.
Transform yourself back into the person you were the day you two first met.
Naturally you can't turn back the hands of time and undo the past few years or months, but you can highlight the things about you that he loved.
He'll see the change in you and it will bring back a flood of memories of the good times you two shared.
Once that happens, he'll feel closer to you emotionally all over again.