You want your boyfriend back, focus on constructive efforts.
Check out the following simple tips and hope for the best.
Let me warn you beforehand - this will not be easy, but in 9 out of 10 cases it works like a charm.
Arrest Negative Feelings -It is easy to blame yourself (or him), but this does would help you get him back.
Arrest all negative feelings and focus on the positive.
Do things that make you happy.
Take time to look back and see what could have jeopardized your relationship.
Tell him you respect his decision - Instead of throwing accusations at him, tell him you respect his decision even if it is not what you wanted.
Do not make any demands or give any ultimatums.
Just assure him he will not have any trouble from you.
Cut all contact instant - Do not get scared; men usually expect their girlfriends to raise hell when they dump them.
When you do not create any emotional scenes they will be intrigued enough to think about you and that is what you want, right? Have fun - Under no circumstance allow yourself to fall into depression or neglect.
Have fun.
Your boyfriend should not see all broken and full of despair.
On the other hand, do not go out of the way to look too cheerful - because that would confirm hurt as well.
Just try your best to stay normal and have fun as you would before the break up.
Pay attention to your appearance - no matter how low you feel, take pains to look good.
Dress well, have your hair done, and generally be more than presentable.
It is important not to let him know how badly he hurt you (not right now).
Try to stay within reach unobtrusively - this might need some help from very close friends.
Try to "find" yourself around him as naturally as possible.
When you talk to him be friendly.
Do not be spiteful or flirtatious; just friendly.
You can tell him that you would be happy if you would be 'just friends' if that was what he wanted.
Start dating - I know this would be difficult when you have a heavy heart.
However, it is important for your boyfriend to realize that you are not planning to chase him; this will make him think more about you.
Be patient with yourself and your relationship.
You will have him back soon enough.