It's amazing how, after cheating on your ex, you simply apologized and now you think that is enough to repair the relationship.
The news for you is that this is just the beginning of a journey towards recovery.
Your ex must have felt cheated and deeply hurt.
An apology is not enough to heal emotional wounds after the cheating and disappointment it caused.
Will an apology be enough to get my ex back after cheating on him? There are some steps you must take to make sure that you make it up to your ex even after he has accepted you back.
You need to do a lot more beyond an apology.
•Try to exert extra effort to reassure the man that you are genuine and are serious about making up.
This is because he may be feeling terribly betrayed and will take some time to heal completely.
•He might not resume from where you left the relationship, meaning that he might still hold back some love from you because of his emotional wounds.
•You need to understand that emotional wounds only fade with time.
Give him time to take those baby steps toward regaining confidence in this relationship once more.
•Sometimes it might mean that you may need to stay away for some time, and even be forced to swallow some bitter words from him.
You need to understand that he is terribly hurt and has a right to say what is in his mind, but you need to ignore these for a moment and just give him time to cool off.
That is why it is important not to be too close to him at this point.
•While all this is going on, let him know that he is really putting you through hard times and that you really miss him.
Such talk helps to soothe his ego and makes him feel that you have suffered enough for your mistakes.
Eventually, all will be well and you will hit it off again.
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