You cannot reason with love.
It has to be created or recreated through the emotion of attraction.
This is why all of your "reasoning" or "logic" is not getting through to your ex.
You are using the wrong keys to access the door because being dumped placed you in an irrational mindset.
Trying to use the language of love to get to the door of your ex's heart will cause you to appear like a desperate beggar.
In order to unlock the door you need to know two things.
First you need to understand how your ex will get back with you.
Your ex will want you back because of the intense emotional connection or attraction that is re-created by you.
A relationship has two primary types of attraction that sustains it.
There is the physical attraction and the emotional attraction.
The physical is when you thought your ex was "hot" - it was like a magnet that pulled you closer so that you can build a real bond.
The emotional attraction keeps people together.
When it is jeopardized or left to leak out, couples breakup.
No one is going to breakup with someone who they have an intense emotional bond with.
Your job is to stop relating to your ex with the language of love because this is the tool that is used INSIDE a relationship.
What you need to do instead is to START to recreate ATTRACTION that if done properly will trigger your ex psychologically and get you the response you want.
Your ex cannot resist you if you rebuild attraction to where it is deeper than it was before you broke up.
There are many ways to rebuild attraction after a breakup.
If you know anything about romantic love, it is built on the amount of attraction that two individuals share with each other.
Individuals who experience romantic love find it hard to resist each other because of the deep connection they share.
Attraction is the lever that you need to pull in order to create the feelings of romantic love in your ex once again.