You are about to steer clear of making some of the most expensive mistakes ever! Yes, that's right, because this guide will show you the 2 important things you need to avoid so that you can get your ex back.
Don't ruin your chances of getting your ex back, instead, do something about it and stop things from getting worse..
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Giving in to your fears Giving into to the idea that you will never find love again, and feeling as if no one wants you.
Getting furthermore depressed and sad, and feeling miserable because you are afraid of losing your ex, and just don't understand how they could suddenly "not love" you anymore.
When you give into your fears, you make one of the biggest mistakes of your life of letting the breakup win.
You are literally saying that you accept you will not get your ex back, because you are allowing your fears to control how you feel and act now.
Instead of letting these emotions eat you away, do things which will make you feel better about the situation.
Look back at the causes of the breakup, and pinpoint where you can improve these "obstacles" so that they are no longer in the way.
Seek the support of your family and friends, and continue doing important tasks in your life, so that you are not just solely concentrating on your ex and how "bad" things are.
Giving into these things only makes your ex think you are weak and desperate, as well as pathetic.
You need to start showing your ex that you are strong and can take care of yourself where it counts, and when it counts, because they cannot always be there and don't like it when you constantly expect them to hold your hand every step of the way.
Terrorizing your ex You don't realize it, but you do this by constantly trying to force them to talk to you.
You call them all the time, at all hours of the day and night, and when they don't answer, you fill up their mailbox.
Not only this, but you then proceed to shoot off 10000 emails, which in turn just makes your ex feel overwhelmed and terrified.
Furthermore, you may have even taken it so far as to stalk your ex in real life, or show up to their work, and this is very obsessive and scary behavior.
Your ex needs space now, and the last thing you should be risking, is losing your ex because of things you DIRECTLY did after the breakup.
This is your chance to get your ex back, so why are you ruining it by acting irrational and letting your emotions get the best of you?