Your husband or boyfriend is gone, and you just can't bear to live without him anymore.
You've tried to trick him into coming back, but do you really want him back, on false pretenses? Of course not! You want him back because he WANTS to get back with you, right? Here are some tips that will help you to win him back.
Many times people will tell someone that they have to make their ex jealous first.
They say that is a surefire way to get them back.
That is NOT good advice at all.
There may be some people that will get back together because of jealousy, but those relationships aren't very good ones to be in.
If you get back together because of jealousy, then that usually means that one of you is controlling.
That will lead to an abusive relationship further down the road.
Think about what you loved in your relationship, and what you didn't.
Are there more good things? If so, then your chances of getting him back are very good.
If there are more bad things, then you really should consider WHY you want him back.
Is it because you truly believe that you belong with him? Or is it because you're afraid of being alone? One mistake I see women doing is trying to change themselves.
They try to make themselves into the woman they think their man wants.
Never, EVER change who you are.
First of all, it will never last - you are who you are.
Second, do you really want to live a lie for the rest of your life? He fell in love with YOU.
If he wants you to change, then he isn't meant for you.
You are a great person, and you are perfect just the way you are.
There ARE things about you, however, that may be turning him off.
Bad habits, 'letting go' of yourself, and drama are some of the top complaints I hear from men.
Take this time apart to work on some of these things.
You will not do it for him - you are doing it for YOU.
You will feel better about yourself, and about your life.
When you talk to him, never try to make him feel guilty.
Many people use guilt to bring their ex back, but it backfires fast.
When you talk to him, make sure to talk about good things.
You have to keep the past in the past.
This way, you'll be able to build a brand new relationship with your ex, and it will be build upon trust, friendship, honesty and love.
These are what makes a relationship last.