It can be hard to talk to an ex girlfriend, especially when you are working on trying to attract her back to you. You might be worried that you'll end up saying the wrong thing and that is definitely something that can and does happen, so it IS good to be worried about that. A lot of men will have a chance at attracting back their ex girlfriend and then they go ahead and say the wrong thing and basically close the door on themselves and you don't want to do that if you don't have to.

Here are 3 things that you DON'T want to say to an ex girlfriend:

1) You don't want to tell her that it was all her fault.

This is something that men do when they are either frustrated or they really are still holding onto some bitterness over the break up. You can't do this, because it is only NATURAL that she is going to be put on the defensive and you don't want her to be that way if you are trying to get her back. There really isn't a good reason to try to tell her that it was all her fault, so don't bother.

2) You don't want to tell her you are sorry UNTIL the time is right.

How can it be a bad thing to tell her that you are sorry? Think about it in this context: if you are mad at someone and you really don't feel like forgiving them just yet, doesn't them saying their sorry have a much different result than if you are ready to forgive them and they say they are sorry? You bet it does and it is the same way with your ex girlfriend. Telling her you are sorry when she wants to hear it is a good thing. Telling her at the wrong time (which most men do), is a BAD thing.

3) You don't want to say that you are going to wait around forever for her.

This just sounds like one of those lame lines in a cheesy movie. The reality is that if you say this, it's not going to have much of a positive effect and it can end up having a negative one because it makes you seem like you have nothing better to do than to just wait around for her. Not a very attractive way to frame the situation and you want to appear attractive to your ex girlfriend, right?