A bad break up, if not handled properly, can really set you back and have a negative effect on your psyche.
You can find yourself becoming withdrawn and moody; sulking all day long.
Throwing a month-long pity party for yourself, however, is not going to get you your ex back.
A wonderfully fulfilling relationship with your ex is just waiting to be had; you just need to know how to do it.
These simple, yet highly effective strategies will help you reunite with your lost love.
Strategy One: Be in full agreement with your ex's suggestion to break up.
This may sound contradictory, but in reality, it is not.
You see, your ex will not expect such a move from you, and this will totally throw him/her off guard.
It will leave him/her wondering how you could be so calm and collected about the whole idea.
This leaves a psychological effect on your ex, drawing off of the widely known fact that most people want what they can't have.
Strategy Two: Keep your emotions in check.
This may pose the most difficult strategy of all, but keeping it together has immense rewards in the end.
Do not let your ex see you vulnerable.
It puts you at a disadvantage, and your ex may be tempted to use it against you.
Also, don't make a spectacle of yourself by bad mouthing your ex.
It portrays you as immature, and bitter.
Take the high road, and you will be admired for it.
Strategy Three: Give your ex some serious space.
This serves two purposes; one, it allows your ex some breathing room to reflect on things and clear his/her head.
Two, it will give you the opportunity to do the same but with some additions.
You can focus on improving your total being; inside and out.
Get healthy, eat right and exercise, and you will look fabulous on the outside.
Include the right additions to your wardrobe, and you ex will be yours before you know it.