We always think that arguing with our partner is the best solution to defend ourself in the routine couple fights.
Accusing our partner is what we all do.
But accusations always lead to new arguments which might sometime become more serious issues that are not really easy to handle.
And then what you least wanted happened...
your partner broke up with you.
Left you feeling desperate and hopeless to get back with them.
Rest assured, I am going to reveal what you need to do to get your ex back and be free from the depression.
We, as adults, have all been experiencing a break up at a time or another during our life.
You probably remember your teenage years, but those relationships were not to last long (in most cases).
But today it is different.
The person you want to live the rest of your life with has just left you.
If you have done a few of the accusations and bickering, then you should stop all right away and review your situation to be able to get your love back.
Take some time out and think over what has happened.
Ask yourself if you really want to get back with your ex.
If your answer is yes (which I am sure it is, else you won't be reading this), then it is absolutely crucial that you find what exactly caused the break up and find the solution to get your couple back together.
You need to understand that right now your ex is angry with you and all that he/she wants is to be away from you.
So, for the time being you better stop "harassing" them.
By that I mean you should stop begging them to take you back, clam down with the countless text messages, sending them flowers and so on.
Just take some time away from them.
All this will NOT work right now.
Give it some time, it will be important for you to get your love back in your life.
During the time you will spend away from your ex, it will do you good to go out with your friends.
I do not mean you should start partying like Paris Hilton but spending some good time with people you appreciate and who are there to support you will help you to get rid of all the sadness and depression.
Also being around loved ones will help you to get the courage you need to get back with your ex later on, it is crucial that you get people around to talk to.
And of course, think about all the precious time with your ex partner and why you want to get back with them.
Getting back the love of your life is not an easy task but if you are determined you will get your love back.
I know that you will not just give up and move on as most people do when their partner left them.
It will take time but if you do all the above, consider that the first step to get your ex back is cleared and it really will not take long before things start getting better in your relationship.