That is the question all women ask themselves when they go through a relationship breakup.
These are 3 tips to guide you to the right choice.
The Excitement of Meeting Each Other Again So you have split from your ex boyfriend and now you have bumped into him again.
You feel the same butterflies you felt when you first met him all that time ago.
It is not like you can flick a switch and turn off your feelings for him.
You have a chat and find that you are both getting on really well and it is like old times.
If you have just split up then it is best to not take this at face value as you may be making all of the effort.
Plus you may be forgetting why you split in the first place.
When the split has been for some time you can clearly think and weigh up the pros and cons of getting back together.
You may be good for each other or you may not.
Think With Your Head and Not Your Heart 1) Never let your emotions rule your head.
The best thing is to go with your gut instinct as it is nearly always right.
When meeting your ex boyfriend again after the split be aware that your emotions may feel sorry for him or see your relationship with rose-tinted glasses.
Be honest with yourself and go away and think of the real fun times and how many they were.
Was he considerate, really caring? Do not give into the temptation of putting all of that to one side and going with the flow.
Let Bygones Be Bygones 2) Forget about placing blame and rehashing old arguments.
There is no point in trying to wipe up spilt milk so get over it.
If he did something to you in the past acknowledge it and then move on.
There's no point thinking about it as this will only make you feel and be spiteful.
So do not discuss them with him.
Expect Nothing 3) Expect nothing, Yes, that's right.
Do not expect him to have changed and remember that you can't change anyone.
If he was a bully before then he may still be and there is no point of even considering getting back together with your ex boyfriend.
The question "Should I get back together with my ex-boyfriend?" is one only you can answer.
Be rational and never rush into things.
Take time out to consider if it's best for you and him.