If you find yourself saying to you or anyone else who is listening, "I'm still in love with my ex.
What do I do?", relax, you are not alone.
Whether you have been in a long-term relationship or marriage there are people out there still clinging for hope.
While right now you have have a desire to turn back the clock, be careful what you ask for.
But for you hopeless (hopeful) romantics out there, lets see if there is anything we can do.
Look at the mistakes that you have made in the past very carefully.
Ask yourself why were they made, what would you have done differently now that you know the result.
By changing the result could I make the relationship stronger? You basically are starting over.
You now have to find a way to do it better.
Tell yourself, "I'm still in love with my ex.
What do I do to make it better?" Try to re-establish a friendship.
It's important that you take it slow because if your ex feels you are just trying to get back into the same ol' relationship they are going to be very reluctant.
Take it slow and easy.
Patience is a virtue here.
If it is meant to be, it will happen.
Think positive about what you are trying to accomplish.
If you are looking sullen or defeated or even worse, desperate, then your ex is going to run in the opposite direction as fast as they can.
No one wants to be around a person like that.
Go somewhere, have a wake for that sad person, bury the emotions and rise again to be the new person that will impress your ex.
Try to think of the kind of person you would like to be with.
People want to be around other people that make them smile.
People want to be with someone who makes them feel good about who they are and what they do.
Try to be someone who makes people feel that way.
If your are able to make your ex feel valuable and valued then you may have a chance to bring back your lost love as well as establish a foundation for a long lasting relationship.
You're still in love with your ex and now you know what you can do!