Make this your summer of love.
Start with loving yourself.
Ha, ha, ha! No, no, no, not that way! What I mean is to treat yourself like you would treat your lover, take yourself to dinner, to a show, make yourself a nice bubble bath, do something you have never done before.
Something your ex has tried to get to do on several occasions and for what ever reason you would not do it.
Now during this time you are not going to contact your ex no matter how hard it may be.
Keep yourself occupied, no sad movies, don't go to their favorite restaurant, or their favorite club you are trying to keep your distance.
If by chance, you do run into them, just say hello and keep on walking, even it they are with someone.
Stay away from mutual friends, change your status on Facebook.
Ignore them.
You don't have to worry about how to get your ex back, if they left because they did not feel appreciated, or they wanted to date other people, let them explore what is out there and realize being single sucks big time without you.
He/she will want to make up with you to see the new you.
It is hard to deal with a breakup.
You have thoughts of can this relationship be saved, what happen is this relationship over, how can I get my ex back, your mind will play tricks on you caused by your physical feelings and your emotions.
Take control of yourself don't go pleading and begging stay strong.
You are going to be so busy, your ex will start to wonder what is going on.
Your ex will want you back just to see what is going on.
If you could turn back time and redo what happen, what was said and stop the hurt.
Would You? Then you could take those hurtful words and put them away never to be used again.
Words can be so hurtful.
Ignoring you Ex can be the beginning of a beautiful new relationship if you are ready to give it a try..
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There are some occasions...
where making a heartfelt apology is all that is needed to have your ex crawling back to you.
Trying to get your ex back by ignoring them takes a little will power.
Apologize the right way.
I have been in several relationships, not all of them have been easy to get over, but that was in my early days.
Now that I am older, I know what it takes to keep a relationship strong and what the other person wants to hear to keep them happy.
It is not all what you say it is what you do that will keep them coming back for more, and loving you all the more.
The art of making up is a way to get your ex back.