Working on your relationship is crucial if you want it to grow.
But what if the other person seems to have given up? Worse, he has decided to move on leaving you devastated.
You still love him and want him back.
Getting your ex back seems impossible now but with the right steps and a bit of effort on your part, a reconciliation can be expected.
It's not too late.
You can still get your ex back into your life once more; only when you begin to realize that you have to work at it because it won't be a walk in the park.
These tips might just do the job.
Be patient and your reward will be great.
Work on your confidence.
It's inevitable that your level of confidence may have gone down when he left you.
It's only natural.
But remember that it's just a phase and may not even be your fault.
This is not the time mope around and point fingers at who is to blame.
Friends are a big help in times like this.
They put right up where you should be.
Surround yourself with positive people who love you.
It won't take long before you discover that you're ready to face the world and him Remove all hurt and guilt feelings.
In other words, erase all negativity within you and around you.
Once you're good and ready, you'd be able to talk to your ex without any bitterness or sadness.
Don't ever communicate with him as long as you feel you're not whole and up to it.
You'll know when it's time.
And when your ex sees how well you're doing, he would want to be with you more than ever.
Re-establish contact once you're ready.
A simple phone call would do.
Just don't expect anything.
If he's anything like you, he might be going through the same thing you've gone through.
So if he seems rude, don't take it personally.
After the initial communication and he seems not ready yet, don't smother him by calling more than what is allowed at this point in your relationship.
That's the worst thing you can do.
He'll eventually come around.
Set the date when he's already up for it.
Make the conversation as light as possible.
Nothing about the past.
Nothing about the two of you.
This is the best time to show your best-the new and improved you.
He will see it and will be encouraged to give your relationship another chance.