When a marriage breaks up and heads for the divorce court it is a tragedy for all concerned especially if there are kids involved.
But does it have to end up this way? If your marriage has ended but you want to get your ex partner back then I have included some resources below that will help you.
In the meantime let's look at some ways of avoiding the marriage break up in the first place.
Like most people you are probably a private person and don't like talking about your relationship with strangers.
I am though, a very strong advocate of professional counselling when it comes to relationship breakups as often you need a third person to help sort out the confusion.
Counsellors are trained in what to say and how to guide you towards an amicable solution to your problems so maybe it's time for you to swallow your pride and take that first step towards saving your marriage? Apart from counselling there are several things you can do to help save your marriage.
Firstly let's look at the "perfect" marriage.
The sooner we understand that this perfect relationship does not exist the better.
Whenever two people come together there will be friction, it's how we deal with that friction that counts! Couples must learn to deal with the foibles of their partner and realise that no one is perfect, we all have our little idiosyncrasies, those little habits we have picked up over the years! So before you complain to your partner about their habits how about having a look at your own! Perhaps the most important thing partners in marriage can do is communicate! So often in a relationship bad feelings are bottled up and left to fester in the imagination.
You must be honest with your partner but not hurtful in what you say.
Try to understand what your partner is saying to you, listen and you may be surprised when they in turn start listening to you! Compromise is next on the list.
It's a strange fact of life that in all our daily affairs should it be work or play we are prepared to compromise and see the other person's point of view.
Until it comes to our relationship! Then it's a case of trying to beat your partner.
Doesn't make much sense does it? Try compromising with your partner and then see the difference it makes! And the last tip? Commitment.
A marriage or relationship means hard work, the only time you give up on it is when there is no hope but the very fact you are reading this tells me you are not ready to give up just yet! The website below will give you some excellent tips on how to get your marriage or relationship back on track.
Sometimes though, no matter how hard you try, your marriage will end up in the divorce courts.
If you have done all you could to save it then you can hold your head high! But if you haven't then isn't it worth trying some of the tips I have given you? You might be surprised at how easy it is to get your ex back and repair your marriage!