A relationship is a mixed bag of conflicts, agreements, disagreements, attractions, and distractions.
All these are inseparable parts and make a relationship interesting.
Its always two people who make a relationship and disagreements are bound to happen.
In our effort to win we forget the need to overpower these conflicts.
If your ex has deserted you try these psychological tricks to get him/her back.
Show no emotions.
Nobody likes to be told that they are wrong.
When you meet with your ex, you must agree with his/her decision to break up.
He/she will not only be surprised to see a confident and happy person but will also be compelled to take a step back and do a rethink of the decision taken by him/her.
Use the feel good factor.
When you feel good, you look good.
So make an effort and look good for the meeting.
It's hard for the other person not to notice the confidence and happiness in you.
Flirt.
In your ex's presence, remind yourself that it's a new and more confident "You".
One that is attractive to the opposite sex.
So be game and act flirty in front of him/her.
Make your presence felt.
Nothing will work better in adding fuel to fire.
Once your ex sees that you are attracting a number of suitors he/she will also join the queue.
Keep in touch.
No matter how impossible it may seem, lock your ego in the closet and be friends.
It pays to be in touch with him/her and his/her family and friends.
Call up occasionally so that you don't fade out from his/her mind.
It will also get him/her wondering as to what on earth went wrong that he/she let go of a person like you.