"How do I get back together with an ex boyfriend?" is a question many women are demanding an answer to.
Unfortunately for us, men just aren't all that easy to figure out.
We may believe that we know the right approach to win back a man's love but in most cases we're completely wrong.
In fact, most women do things after a break up that unwittingly kill any chance they may have had to get their guy back.
If you don't want this to happen to you, there's one major mistake that you absolutely must avoid doing.
The one mistake that could cost you a future with your ex boyfriend is clinging onto something that isn't there anymore.
When a man you love tells you that he is done with the relationship you feel an instant sense of loss.
The natural thing to do is to try and hold on to the way things used to be.
We become almost desperate in an effort to do this and resort to things like calling him when we're crying uncontrollably, sending him gifts or telling him that he's ruined our life.
If you feel an urge to do this, stop.
Do whatever you have to do to resist the temptation to do it.
Any time you show your ex that you are falling apart emotionally because of the break up, he'll feel justified in his decision to not be with you.
If that's the biggest mistake, what should you be doing? The answer to that is quite simple.
You've got to throw the rejection right back into his lap.
Tell him that you feel relieved by the break up or that you're glad he agrees with what you've been thinking.
Do this in person because you're going to enjoy his reaction.
He's likely going to look as though he's seen a ghost.
He's going to be shocked.
If he's expecting you to cry and go on about how much you need him, and you don't do that, he won't know up from down anymore.
His world will fall apart, just as you feel yours has and he'll suddenly be the one who wants you back.
Men can't stand rejection.
Once they feel it, they try as hard as they can to get whatever or whoever is rejecting them.