Hooking up with an ex girlfriend.
For most guys, this is just a fantasy.
They think back on that ex of theirs that they are still attracted to and still have feelings for and they wonder what it would be like to be able to sleep with her again.
When most guys think about this...
a part of them wonders if hooking up with their ex girlfriend will be what it takes to win her back.
Now, you might automatically think that this is an easy way to get back together, but...
is it? The answer to this question is varied to be honest.
There is no one way to look at it that will encompass all women and all situations.
However, you might be surprised at just often hooking up with an ex girlfriend does NOT lead to a couple getting back together.
Why is that? In many situations, while the guy is completely happy that he got to hook up with her again...
the woman on the other hand is feeling regret about it the next day.
To her, it was a weak moment, a mistake that she would rather not repeat.
Isn't it funny how two people can share an experience together and walk away with two completely different takes on what went down? So, hooking up does not necessarily mean that you will definitely get your ex girlfriend back.
But, anyway that you look at it...
it WILL have an impact! If you hook up with an ex girlfriend and the next day she feels regret about it and wishes that she had not done that with you, then obviously the impact is a negative one.
And if you hook up with her and she is excited about it the next day, then obviously it has a positive impact.
And that is probably the kind of impact that you want to have happen if you want to get your ex girlfriend back.
How can you make it so that you can hook up with your ex girlfriend and make it so that it has a positive impact on whether or not you will get back together again? Probably the easiest and most effective way to make sure that it has a positive impact is to focus all of your attention on HER and making her feel good.
If you hook up with an ex girlfriend that you want to get back together with...
the last thing that you should be is a selfish lover.
Make it a positive experience for her by making it be all about her.
The next thing that you can and should do...
is to ease off the talk of getting back together right away.
If you sleep with her and the next morning you are already talking about getting back together, she is going to think that the only reason why you slept with her is to get what YOU want.
And that is not a good thing.
So ease off of that and make sure that she wakes up with no regret in the morning.