A Breakup can be the most painful time in one's life.
But if you find yourself continuously thinking of your ex, and cannot get on with normal life without her, it is time to get up and get into some action.
If you are convinced that you need your ex back in your life, then locking yourself up and thinking about old times won't help.
Below are some tips to help you put together an action plan to get your ex back.
Get out of the reverie Accept the breakup, and move on.
This will help you in two ways.
Firstly, it will help you feel great and look good.
Secondly, it will give you a clear mind to chalk out your next moves.
Writing helps Write down what you think may have caused your ex to call it off.
Then write what you can do to make things better.
You will see yourself getting a clear idea about what to do next.
Also write down what you can do to make her appreciate you more.
Keep in Contact Try to contact your ex and see if he or she approves of it.
If your ex also wants to keep in touch with you, then half your problem is sorted out.
Make use of this opportunity to establish strong bonds of friendship.
Your ex should feel the positives of your presence in his or her life.
Lunch meetings Take your ex on lunch dates as friends.
Go to casual places to catch a quick meal, and don't make it romantic.
You must be careful not to be available for dinner, since it is still an early stage.
Talk about work, or other interesting things happening in both of your lives.
Your ex's hobby is your interest Take interest in your ex's hobby and offer to accompany your ex to do his or her favorite activity.
You are on an upper hand here, because you already know what your ex likes to do on weekends.
Take it further When you have started to spend some time together again, now is the time to take some time off together.
Make plans for a trip to favorite destination with common friends, and invite your ex to accompany you.
Take time to reconnect and bond together, even if you don't get time alone with your ex.
Come clean Talk about getting back together after your outing.
Confess your mistakes and convince that you will correct yourself.
Admit your positive feelings about having your ex back in life.