If someone told you that one way to win an ex boyfriend back would be to date someone else, you might think them crazy.
This sounds backwards and you could actually ruin your chance of ever getting him back trying this.
Well, it is actually a useful technique to use, it will help you get through your break up and can have your ex boyfriend calling you again out of curiosity.
The idea is that when we get dumped by someone that you loved, you will most likely want to get them to come back to you.
This is natural because you don't want to lose him and you worry your boyfriend may hook up with someone else before you can win him back.
The natural instinct can be to keep calling and emailing him trying to make contact so you can talk to him.
Unfortunately this can backfire on you by pushing him away.
Don't rush things after your break up, you need to take time off so you can get your thoughts in order, about four weeks would be a good amount of time.
During this time do not try to contact your ex, leave him alone to do his own thing.
If you are worried he will forget about you and move on to someone else, don't be concerned.
He is thinking about you no matter what he is doing.
Now go out and have fun, let yourself be free of worry so you can hurry and get over this break up.
This will keep you busy so you are not thinking of calling your ex boyfriend and it will help boost your confidence.
If you happen to meet another guy, go ahead and date.
Just make it clear that you are not interested in a serious relationship now, but would enjoy going out.
The idea is not to make you're ex boyfriend jealous but what it could do is spark a new interest in you.
And who knows, this new guy you are dating could turn out to be a better choice than the other guy.
You may decide that you don't want to get back with your ex after all.