The last contact you had with your ex was really ugly! It was during an argument that started over something really stupid, and escalated into a huge explosion.
You shouted at each other, insulted each other, and said some terrible things to each other.
This of course, caused the relationship to end abruptly - can you get your ex back? Believe it or not, but there is a method called the no contact rule, that will do just that! You and your ex have probably not spoken to each other since the break up, right? Although this might seem like a disaster to you, it is actually the perfect thing to happen right now.
You are actually applying the no contact rule with each other, even though it is not voluntary.
You and your ex are not speaking to each other because you DON'T want to speak to each other or see each other right now.
This is the after effect of that major argument you had.
Whatever you said to each other caused so much pain and anger to both of you, that you cannot even bear the thought of being in each other's company now.
Now, if you are strong enough to keep this up for a while, you are actually putting the no contact rule into practice.
Right now, it's not so difficult to do, because you don't want to see your ex.
However, once your emotions have settled down, and you realize that you DO still love your ex; you will find it a lot harder to not make contact with him/her.
This is when you are going to have to be really strong and put all your efforts into making the no contact rule work.
No matter how badly you want to call your ex or send him/her a message, DON'T - it will ruin everything, and you won't get your ex back.
Just stay right away from your ex for a while longer, and allow your ex the opportunity to realize that he/she does still love you.
Not seeing you at this stage will make your ex miss you and want to see you.
The whole idea is to make your ex miss you so much that he/she will make the first move and give you a call.
So keep it up, apply the no contact rule for as long as possible, and you will get the results you are looking for.
You will have your ex missing you like crazy, so much so, that your ex wastes no time in making contact with you first, and suggest that you get together to talk things over.