How dare your ex break up with you when to all purposes you did nothing wrong.
And why should you shoulder all the blame.
It's high time you start playing a low down psychological game to get back at your ex.
After all why should you be the only one suffering.
Here are four psychological tips if done properly can achieve effective results.
   Question.
"How do you win your ex back?" using tried and tested methods of the mind game.
   Answer: Stay on good terms with your ex's family.
Talk to them.
Go visit them.
You used to before the break up so why stop.
It's your ex that's fallen out with you not the family.
Talk about anything except the break up.
  If they should ask you how the break up has affected you just say you're doing just great and hope that your ex is doing fine also.
The ex's family could well re-unite behind you and put pressure on your ex to explain the reason behind the break up and give it another try.
  If your ex does contact you on the phone, stay neutral about the break up.
Keep the tone of your conversation indifferent.
Your ex will be expecting a sad and broken person on the other end and when they here an indifferent voice their curiosity is going to get the better of them and they'll just as likely want to know what's happened to you.
Expect a visit from your ex quite soon.
   Get a new hobby or join a sports club.
Go spend some money on your self.
Do the things you've always wanted to do which you couldn't do when your ex was around.
Dress the way you want to look and not just to please your ex.
Go out with your friends and have some fun.
Go to places and mix with the opposite sex.
Your ex will soon find out what you're up to.
  Get your ex jealous.
Have a close friend of the opposite sex take you out and make sure you are seen by your ex to be having a wonderful time together.
Your close friend would be more than happy to play along to see the two of you and your ex back together again.
That should ruffle a few feathers.
  Your ex did something very wrong by dumping you.
Let them take the initiative by putting things right.
You on the other hand have an advantage over your ex.
You now know some of the rules and the game has only just began.