You might have been dating for a couple of months now but there has been something inside you that keeps telling you that not everything is right about you and your partner.
The fire that you had in the relationship is diminishing by the hour.
The kind of wild intimacy play you had and the many dates you attended are slowly coming into naught.
You start suspecting the worst, that he must be seeing someone else.
You are not able to determine what could have brought the causal affair to take place.
Sometimes, you are even sure it is not an affair and you feel you must be a jealous person and that you are blind to the whole panorama of your relationship.
Let us face it.
It is one of the hardest things to determine in a dating relationship.
When doubting feelings creep in, you must be on the lookout for those behaviors that will give you the whole picture.
You must be aware that if at all the partner is having an affair, then she or he has a habit of being overtly attentive more than his or her usual self.
He must have showered you with myriad gifts and unworthy compliments and reek of inappropriateness.
This could easily be a way of trying to live with his guilt.
You can have it that the partner is cheating; there is a sudden transformation in his routine.
You must have noticed his new habit of staying outdoors for some extra hours than usual.
He fails to take dinner with you and being unaccountable for his whereabouts.
Altering a routine is something that communicates a lot; you can take it as a sign of cheating.
Another sign of dating in a relationship is the frequency of fights you are having, which can easily depict much trouble.
The psychological explanation to this crude way of fury is that he wants a chance and a reason to leave and grace the person he is now having stolen moments with.
You might not be the one who squarely shoulders the blame; many are the times when the cheater will be after ways of justifying his actions.
Look at the way the man is more critical of your dating relationship and to your actions.
His criticism is just in search of an emotional reason to fly out to his mistress.
Their guilty mind is also sensitive to kinds of criticism that you show them, since anything you tell them will always trigger some kind of acrid feeling of guilt which they are not ready to face.
Another thing to check as you try to determine if he is cheating on you is that most of the times that you have fights, he is always menacing you with calling the relationship a total failure.
He might be deriving a lot of pleasure from the ultimatums he is giving you because he does not worry.
There is always a back up somewhere for him in case you have decided to go separate ways.