Some parents complain that giving consequences rather than punishments just does not work with their difficult child.
But there are lots of other techniques if you follow a child behavior program.
Here are some general tips about how to parent a difficult child, remembering that one size does not fit all.
How do you deal with obnoxious behavior, misbehaving in public or just been problematical? It is pointless responding with anger because that will convince the child that he is getting somewhere.
Try a blank stare, you could ignore it if it is still within the limits, respond calmly or take some time out yourself.
You will have to experiment to see which one works best for your child.
Punishments are generally out because they shame and anger the difficult child.
Resentment and anger build up.
Making a child repair damaged furniture or doing extra chores or having to actually pay for the damage are more effective.
Wait till your father gets home and other threats are meaningless to a difficult child and show that escalation is now a real possibility.
As a parent you have to learn how to defuse the situation and there are a variety of options open to you if you follow a child behavior program.
How much physical affection do you show your child? Just because he is difficult does not mean that you can shut off your love and affection like a tap.
You should be turning it on! One parenting expert has estimated that wounded children need 12 hugs a day.
Normal adults only need about 8 hugs a day to maintain emotional stability.