When you have lost your boyfriend and you still love him, it is natural to want him back. It is easy to think that you should call him and let him know you are sorry. But, that is the last thing you should do if you want him back. You will start crying and begging at the sound of his voice and he will hang up on you. That will make you think he is lost for good. Instead of making this sort of mistake, these fast effective tips will get your ex back.

In fact by calling him, you will be doing exactly what he expects you to do. This will let him know that he can have you anytime he chooses. As long as he knows you want him back, he will make you wait. This feeds his ego and makes him feel he is king and you are his slave. If you ever hope to get your ex back, you cannot let this happen.

You want him back, but you cannot let him know it. So, you need to summon up all of your strength and cut off all contact with him. Make him think you are fine with the breakup and appear to be moving on. Find other interests to keep from thinking of the man you love. Spend time with your family and go out with your friends. Take up the life you had before the relationship and ignore your ex boyfriend entirely.

When you show no signs that you want him back, he will wonder if you still love him. Not trying to communicate with him in any way, will hurt his ego and pride. Instead of you feeling you have lost your ex boyfriend, he will think he has lost you. Now he will be the one feeling rejected and that is not a good feeling for a man.

Suddenly he will realize that he still loves you and misses being with you. This will make getting back the ex boyfriend you thought you had lost much easier. He will be wondering where you are and what you are doing. The thought will occur to him that you have found another guy and you are in his arms this very minute. That will drive him crazy and he will have to call you.

This will be a crucial time and you cannot cry or let him know how happy you are that he called. If you do not think you can just be cheerful and act as if you are surprised to hear from him, don't take the call. Wait for a time when you are feeling strong and call him back. You have been through to much to let it slip away now. You have him coming to you, so take it slow and you will get back the ex boyfriend you thought you had lost.