She left you and you feel lost and rudderless? Hey, cheer up.
You can get her back buddy.
Just follow these simple steps and you will have her back in no time.
1.
Let her go - you heard me right.
The first - and perhaps the most important - step of the lot is to let her go.
Tell her that you have been a jerk and that she is right by wanting to get away from you.
This is important because only then she would drop her guard against your (future) advances.
2.
Accept your faults - say it loud and clear, 'I do accept I have acted like a jerk and I am grateful for this opportunity that showed me how priceless you are for me'.
You can put it in any way you like it, but it should mean this exact thing.
Let her know you realize you have made mistakes.
3.
Say you are sorry (and mean it) - apologize.
First, for being the cause of her pain; second, for losing her.
Tell her how terrible you feel that you have hurt her and that you feel you deserve much worse than her worst punishment for you.
4.
Get back on to her radar - do not expect that she would give you a chance in a jiffy.
But you can work yourself into her life by trying to share as many interests as you can.
Be there around her at regular intervals - not daily and every moment as this could turn pretty creepy.
5.
Ask for help - get in touch with common friends and ask them for a little help.
Be careful here.
It would be difficult for friends to get involved without taking sides, so be very sensitive and diplomatic.
Just ask them to give you a chance to talk things out, to show that you want to make amends.
Most people are romantic at heart and want to be the tool of bringing two hearts together.
6.
Behave like a friend not lover - I know that you want to crush her in your arms and tell her how much you love her; but that will send her away forever.
Just take things slowly.
Start at ground zero and work your way up.
7.
Stay true to your words - she needs to know that you are indeed willing to change for her, for your relationship.
Show her that you are indeed a changed man and you would have her back.