Are you caught up in heartbreak and frustration over the loss of your ex.
Would it give you relief to know that you can turn things around right now? here are some tips to do and not to do to get them back right now.
You are probably well familiar with the things you should not do, and are probably doing most of them unknowingly.
Your attempts to get your ex back are out of your need and desperation...
To have them back in your life again.
this is a recipe for disaster acting in such a way.
You will only push them away acting like this.
Your ex is repulsed by this behavior and if you really want things to change, start acting completely different.
That's right, behave in a confident, certain, effortless manner.
Why is it that the rich get richer and the broke get more poor?...
It's the same reason why being miserable and feeling bad will only end up giving you more of that.
The rich are focused on all the things that bring wealth, and the same goes for the poor only in the other direction.
In relationships, it is the same thing.
You may be unaware, but you are focused strongly on the things that will bring you misery, pain and loneliness.
Believe it or not, but you are focused on bringing the same to your ex.
You see, in your relationship, you brought about so much conflict, unhappiness and negativity, that it feels normal to you now.
What feels normal to you is negative to other people.
Your view is distorted.
Like a racecar spinning out of control, heading straight for a concrete wall, if you don't start focusing on the "road", you are bound to crash violently.
And Here's The Thing...
If you start focusing on the "road" (where you want to go) you won't immediately start going there.
You will experience some lag time (disappointment at first) But eventually your "car" will get back on track.
And one thing is for sure.
If you keep focusing on the "wall" (feeling hopeless, unhappy) you will hit the concrete fast! So focus strongly on where you want to go.
Have absolute certainty that you are moving towards there.
Make the necessary adjustments, and don't lose your focus.
Be determined to get to your destination and soon enough things will all align in the direction of your focus.