There are 5 things you can do to successfully get back your ex.
These will once again open up the doors of communication, and soon thereafter, reunion.
Back to not only where you were before, but an even better place, an even better relationship.
The 5 secrets to getting back my ex: 1.
Space is the Place.
After immediate breakup you do need to provide space.
Allowing some time to go by will simmer down any anger or resentment and will allow you to operate on a more level headed playing field which is essential for getting your ex back.
2.
Write a note, letter, draw a picture.
You want to "drop back in", but you want to do it sweetly and carefully.
Not saying too much and not bringing up anything about the break up.
Drawing a hand drawn picture of something cute or positive with a smiley face and a quick "thinking of you" or "hope your well" will turn the key that will eventually re-open the door.
3.
Never be needy, greedy, or pathetic.
These are very common and natural traps we can all easily fall into.
But they are guaranteed black holes.
Once you go there, it will be a hard time getting out.
If you've already dipped a bit in this department, just re-group and start over by creating space and going from there.
4.
Create desire.
"Getting back my ex requires I close the gap eventually, and talk to them.
But how?" By creating desire.
This will have to be brief and mysterious, and it actually works best by leaving a message on voice mail.
Be pleasant and positive, tell them you hope they are doing good, and that you need advice on something, or tell them thanks for teaching you something.
Whatever form of interest or desire you can create will be enough of an urge for your ex to actually take action and return the call.
And then the door becomes open.
5.
Form a plan (Very Important!) Getting back with the ex will require that you gently open the door back up by doing the above.
But once it's open, you have to explode into "getting my ex back" action! And the only way to do that is by following a plan.
I highly recommend getting a routine or program and just following what it says, as these generally have an excellent track record for working, and they are super simple to follow, plus don't require a lot of time.
And time is of the essence here, so following a plan already researched out by someone else that works well, is really ideal.