Wanting to have your girlfriend back in your life is really pretty common. What is not common is actually doing something that will inspire her to want to give things another go. Go to any bar that you can find, and you will be able to unearth a ton of guys that have an ex girlfriend that they wish they could have gotten back somehow, and someway.

Yet, there are also plenty of stories of men that DO get back with their girlfriend. Even guys that you would kind of assume don't deserve a second chance. So, why are you waiting around for something to happen?

Here are some tips to make her want to be back with YOU:

1. Women, including your ex girlfriend, are attracted to men that seem to be going somewhere with their lives.

Like I said, you can walk into any bar, just about anywhere, and find a lot of men sitting there, wishing that their ex girlfriend would come back to them. And you know why they will NEVER have a real shot at getting her back? Because they are sitting there, wishing that something would happen. You have to make sure that you don't allow a breakup to cause you to fall off track with the rest of your life, because if it does, then the chances that you will be able to somehow attract her back to you are going to be next to none.

2. Your ex girlfriend does not want to be bombarded with attention.

Why would you AFTER the breakup, start calling her twice as much as you did when you were a couple? Most guys end up doing this, and you have to realize that the more attention that you try to bombard her with, the more you are going to actually just make her want to get away from it all. And in this case, getting away from it all means...YOU. Let her breathe, let her be for a while. Then come back and make contact. But when you do, don't go overboard with it, or else you will be drowning in your own TEARS.

3. If you don't follow a plan of action, the odds that you will get your girlfriend back are diminished by a LOT.

Men that try to do this on their own with no real plan in sight, are pretty much lost straight out the gates. You have to be able to act with precision, and do the right things at the right times if you want to guarantee success when it comes to getting back with her. If you don't have a plan, then I can pretty much guarantee that getting back your ex girlfriend will be IMPOSSIBLE.