Congratulations! You are one of the thousands of people that are single again! However, if you're reading this, you're not happy with your "single" status, and you would give anything to get back with your ex. Don't worry, nothing is impossible, and with a bit of effort from your side, you can still get the one you love back again.

After a breakup you might feel miserable. This is perfectly natural, but you really need to get out of this state. Nobody likes to see you dwelling in self-pity. It's not a pretty picture for your ex, or any other girl or guy for this matter. The very first thing you need to do if you want to get your ex fall in love with you again, is gain some self-confidence.

There are ways and ways of gaining some confidence. However, the most visible one that will make you feel good on the outside and on the outside is a makeover. It is simple to do. Buy some new clothes, hit the gym and get fit. Also, see what you need to change and what you need to improve, and simply do it. Think about why your ex wanted to break up, what are you're your flaws? How can you change them? Reinvent yourself, become a better new person. Keep only the good things about you, the rest, you can leave out.

Once you've gone through this change, you can meet with your ex. This is a big challenge, but you can do it. Be calm, mature, and tread carefully, because your ex will be cautious. Don't be smug, be sincere and honest and apologize if you need to. Once you've gone through a successfully first meeting, you're half way there!