Steering clear of the usual dating Chinese women etiquette cliches I see on many websites which give advice on attracting and dating Chinese women, yet which for the most part are tired old rehashed versions of the 'how to attract Asian women' one size fits all variety, I'd like to offer you two great techniques which are actually specifically based on Chinese culture and Chinese women, which I myself have used frequently in the eight years I have been in China dating many different kinds of Chinese women.
First off I want you to know one unquestionable fact about Chinese culture, and this fact is really going to help us when dating and attracting Chinese women; Chinese culture is largely based on Confucianism and conformity, the majority of Chinese women have a way of thinking and reacting to situations and circumstances which is remarkably predictable (I judge this to be around 80% accurate based on mine and others experiences), How does this help us? Well, this means if you know the techniques that are tried and tested and that also fit Chinese dating etiquette and we combine them then we will have an incredibly high success rate when dating Chinese women, and I know this because I use them all the time! Let's have a look at a couple Chinese dating etiquette techniques that'll get you beyond the dreaded 'friend zone' we've all been in at one time or another: 1.
Man up! As a western man you may very well be used to being very aware of being politically correct where western women are concerned, and there's certainly nothing wrong with that, but the problem is if you are dating Chinese women you need to do somethings differently in order for her to be attracted to you.
You don't want to be 'that-guy', the one that's just simply kept around for your providing and stability status, you want her to actually really feel for you.
Chinese women like a real man, one who can take control and make decisions, so the next time you're at dinner with her don't 'hmmm and haa' about a dish choice, make the choice and make one for her too! This is attractive to her, and in some ways what is expected of you in Chinese dating etiquette.
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Another surprisingly effective technique when on a date with a Chinese woman is to simply place some of the food from your plate or bowl into hers.
Usually in Chinese culture people do this with each other to show respect/kindness or generosity; in the case of doing this with your date, it will have a visibly positive effect on her and her feelings towards you.
This one Chinese dating etiquette rule will compel her attraction towards you! Try it yourself for proof positive.