Finding the right nanny for your child was probably your top priority so far. But now that you have found one you need to ensure that your relationship with your nanny is smooth and trouble free. Here are some ground rules you can follow to ensure a smooth and fruitful relationship with your nanny that will be beneficial to both you and your child.

1.) Make the Work Arrangement Clear: If you got your nanny through a nanny service [http://www.nannypoppinz.com] then you would have got a sample work arrangement form. If not, you can always prepare your own form. Write down stuff like work schedule, days off, benefits and other details on this form. Hand a copy to your caregiver and keep a copy with yourself. This will ensure that there are no work related misunderstandings between you and your nanny in the times to come

2.) Agree on House Rules: Just like the work arrangement it is important that you make the nanny understand what you will and will not tolerate in your house. Your nanny will not automatically know how to act around the house unless she is given clear cut instructions.

Some things you can consider are:

Telephone usage: Can the nanny make use of or receive personal calls on your telephone during work hours?

Allowing friends: Is it okay for the nanny to bring her friends over on some days?

Dress code: Is there a specific dress code that you want the nanny to follow while working?

Watching TV: Is it okay for the caregiver to watch your T.V. and play music using your CD player?

Computer usage: Is it okay for the nanny to use your computer to send or receive emails?

These are just some of the rules you can clarify on the first day of work. Giving these rules in writing would be a better idea but in most cases simple verbal communication should do the job.

3.) Allow the Nanny to Settle Down: If you have hired a live-in nanny, you really cannot expect her to be comfortable with a new home immediately. Allow her the time to settle down. Be friendly to her and try to understand her feelings.

4.) Communicate with Your Nanny: Regular communication between
you and the nanny is extremely important to ensure a smooth relationship. If possible schedule a time like for instance on weekends where the both of you can sit together and discuss issues related to work, how the children are growing, chancing needs etc.

5.) Treat Her With Respect: Treat your nanny with respect at all times. Introduce her to your friends and relatives, make her a part of celebrations and make her feel that she is part of the family. Ask her what she prefers to be called when introduced to other people.

6.) Appreciate Her Work: Whenever possible let her know that she is doing a great job. Well-deserved recognition and praise go a long way. Offer her monetary rewards like an additional bonus at times. This will ensure that she gives her best at all times and tries to better her best.

Even after all this if you feel that you and your nanny do not gel together then it's time for a replacement. There is nothing wrong in replacing a nanny but make sure that you give your nanny ample time so she can make proper arrangements. Do not make her leave at a moment's notice.