So it's love...
you are soul mates, right? It's meant to be, right? You might be pondering these very things.
How can anyone be for certain? You have since broken up and you are definitely sure that it's the worst possible decision.
You know that you'll make your way around to your ex eventually, but you want it now...
right now! So how in the heck do you get them back? Read these bullet point ideas and put them to the test! oStop the desperate dialing! The last thing your ex is going to want to hear is the phone ringing off the hook and them having to hit the ignore button.
Communication is the key, but when the time is right.
You do not need to be calling at 2 a.
m.
after you've had one too many.
If you stop the dialing, the person on the other end starts to wonder.
They start to yearn for you and they'll be the ones to break and dial you up.
This is a vital step in getting them to feel the passion for you again.
oSit down and think about the true reasons of why the two of you split up.
What specific things drove the relationship into the ground? Was it one simple thing that was the breaking point? Could it have been prevented? Could it have been controlled by either party? Was it something that you did or do everyday? Chances are you will find some things that are just 'you.
' If the main reasons why you broke up are for things that you will never change, stop reading.
If they were things that could be worked on, then you have got to get that part of your life together.
Think of it as emotional stability.
Take out a pen and paper and jot them down.
What are the actions that caused the breakup and what were the behaviors that drove those actions.
Then after you have that down, think about the actions you could have taken to prevent that.
What are the behaviors that go along with those actions? Once you have a game plan written down, you are miles ahead of where you started.
Plus, you have grown emotionally stronger in the process.
oGrab someone cute to hang with.
You don't have to be serious with the person or even remotely interested in starting a relationship, but friend dates seen from your ex from afar will definitely have them cringing with rage.
They will see that you have some what moved on and have kind of forgotten about them.
They will definitely make sure that they are in your line of vision or in your arms in no time.
oGet rid of the sweats, the junk food, and the TV remote.
The last thing your ex wants is a pathetic depressed loser that can't let it go.
Go to the gym, go to the clubs, laugh in public, and always be around friends.
Let them see that they did not get the best of you and you are fine without them.
This will challenge their inner feelings as well.
They'll start thinking "Am I really happy without them?" oAlways look smoking hot! You deserve to look and feel your best.
Make sure that you keep up with yourself and your taking care of the number one thing - you! Forget doing it for anyone else.
By wearing the clothes you would buy if you were still with them, doing your hair, working out, getting a tan, you are still saying "Damn, I look freaking good.
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