Even if you don't have feelings for an ex girlfriend, learning about her dating again is unpleasant at the least.
Now, if you still have feelings for your ex, then you can multiply the unpleasantness by about a thousand.
There is however a way to win back your ex girlfriend from her new boyfriend.
The plan is simple enough, but it will seriously test your patience to its absolute limit.
If you are ready for the challenges ahead, then this plan will put you on the right track.
Phase 1 - Let go of her and the past Avoid at all cost being labeled a desperate ex boyfriend.
There is a very fine line between that of a stalker and an ex boyfriend who just can't let go of the past.
Convince her that you have moved on and leave the past in the past where it belongs.
The plan is to start something new with your ex and trying to fix what's broken down beyond repair is futile.
If you want her to come to back, then is only logical that you first let her go.
Phase 2 - Invest some time in yourself Stay away from your ex girlfriend for a month or two, this is both a strategic need and an emotional need at the same time.
If you can recall the first couple of months of your relationship with your ex girlfriend, then you shouldn't have trouble figuring out that there is nothing you can do to stop her from seeing her new boyfriend at this juncture.
The real relationship starts after the honeymoon period and that's when relationships start to get tested.
There's also the fact that you need this time to complete the phase 1 of this plan and not to mention the fact that you will have to make some major improvements on yourself.
Successfully completing phase 1 will have you mentally prepared for the challenges ahead, but next you will have to make some improvements to your physical appearance.
Exercise regularly, eat healthy, and start dressing up a little.
Wear casual clothes everywhere for one week and then try wearing formal clothes for an entire week the week after.
You will notice an enormous difference in the way you carry yourself depending on the clothes you wear and more importantly people around you will notice those changes as well.
Keeping yourself fit will give you a huge boost of self-esteem and your new set of wardrobes will get you noticed even more.
Phase 3 - Wait for your chance Here's the good news, no relationship is trouble free forever and your ex girlfriend's new relationship will start to get tested on the first month or the second.
This is especially true in your ex' case because her new boyfriend is likely just a rebound guy and rebound relationships don't last long.
If she dumps the new guy, she will inevitably start thinking about you, the last real boyfriend.
But then if she's the one who ends up getting dumped, then you are in a perfect spot to save her when she is most vulnerable.
In the event that her new relationship continues on, you will have to change your tactic and approach her under the cover of friendship.
Don't ever make the mistake of letting her know that you still have feelings for her and make it convincing enough that all you want is her friendship.
If you have been away from your ex for couple of months or more, then it shouldn't be much challenge to convince your ex that the two of you should be friends.
This friendship will stir small but persisting problems with the new boyfriend and it will be enough to subtly put yourself between your ex and her new man.
Once you have maneuvered into this position the rest should be a piece of cake.