If you still love your ex boyfriend you may feel as though your life is at a standstill.
It's virtually impossible to move forward and even think about falling in love again, if he's all you think about.
If you feel as though you are living in limbo, there is something you can do to change everything.
You don't have to live the rest of your life without him.
You can get your ex back if you understand exactly what steps are required.
Many women feel that the best approach to take to get back with the man they adore is to make him jealous.
If you do this you are essentially decreasing your chance of a reunion with him.
As much as you think he'll react by proclaiming his love for you and stealing you back from your new man, that won't happen.
What does happen is that he sees you with someone else and that image is burned in his memory forever.
He won't be able to escape from it and every time he looks at you, he'll think about the other guy.
If you still love your ex boyfriend, don't try and make him jealous to get him back.
Calling him over and over again is also not a good approach.
What many women don't understand is that men fall in love and back in love with women when they miss those women.
As soon as he realizes how empty his life is without you, he'll want you back too.
Therefore you have to resist any urge you may have to talk to him.
If you still love your ex boyfriend make a pact with yourself to not contact him.
Get busy doing other things.
Even if you have to enlist the help of a friend to help you beat the addiction to talk to him, do it.
This works amazingly well.
In almost all cases, the man will be calling the woman within a couple of weeks, wanting to know where she's gotten to and what she's been up to.
Once this happens, getting back together is definitely in sight.