Have you recently experienced a breakup?  Would you like to be getting back together with your ex?  Well here are a few tips that will help.
It is a common notion that women call of 3 out of every 4 relationships.
  This is often times due to the fickle nature of women.
  There are many times that a woman may realize that it was a mistake to break up but they are just not able to accept that they are wrong.
  They may actually be willing to re-establish the relationship if you make the first move.
One thing you have to do is to try and figure out what went wrong and then change it.
  Think about yourself for a minute.
  Are you boring?  If so, then liven things up a bit and be more spontaneous.
  Consider your looks.
  Are you rather plain or do you tend to be more fashionable than other men.
  Maybe you need a makeover and some new clothes.
  What is your behavior like?  Are you independent are needy?  Women like an independent man, so if you are needy back off a little and giver her some space.
If you really want to get back together with your ex, you need to demonstrate to her that you are the type of guy that she wants to be with.
One good way to get back together with your ex is to show her that you are the kind of guy other women want to be with.
  Every girl professes a desire to be unique.
  What you will quickly find is that their idea of "unique" is a look that is just like all of their friends.
  Her friends are in-demand kind of girls in her mind.
So, if you really want to show her that you are the same kind of noticeable guy, you have to start dating the kind of women that she is friends with.
  Better yet, dating her close friends will make her want you back.
At a minimum flirt with her friends if you do not feel comfortable dating them.
  When you see your ex with a throng of her girlfriends, don't pay any attention to her.
  Focus on her friends.
  If one of her friends tends to be particularly plain then spend a lot of time with her.
  This is one method of getting back together with your ex.
How will you know if she may be receptive to getting back together with you?  One way is to notice how she responds to you when other guys are around.
  Does she get defensive if someone else puts you down?  If so, this is a good sign that she still likes you and will be receptive to getting back together.
You need to be aware that getting back together with your ex causes a shift in the power relationship at play.
  You must realize that you do not belong to one another exclusively anymore.
  Instead, you are two independent persons revolving around the other.
Realize that this power shift has occurred and use it to your advantage.
  It is a big mistake to wallow in your sorrow rather than thinking about your behavior toward your ex.
To take advantage of this power shift, you will want to romance her.
  The best way to do this is to change the things that she did not like about you or your relationship.
  Show her you are willing to change and work at the relationship.
  Demonstrate to her that you are the kind of guy that women want.
  Be just a little bit unavailable to her.
  You will totally ruin it if you act too eager.
  If all of this does not work then she has quite likely moved on and has little or no interest in re-starting a relationship.
However, I think in most cases, if you make the needed changes, your can get back together with your ex.