For those people who have no experience in long distance relationships, you should know that this kind of relationship is as difficult as it is.
Being unable to see the person you love is harder than one would expect it to be.
Unlike those short distance relationships, it would be easy for both parties to say "I'm going to go out with friends.
I'll see you later.
" When both parties involved in the long distance relationship will say the above statement, the last sentence is changed to "I'll see you soon.
" With the distance between two people who are in a relationship, there are a lot of things that they could do in their spare time.
But what could they do when all they want is to be with the other? Couples living far away from each other should learn to cherish the time that they have while apart.
It should be kept in mind that even though they are in a relationship, they still need to regain their individuality.
They should avoid hanging out constantly with the computer.
You have lives, your partner has a life.
A little piece of long distance relationship advice, go and enjoy your life, too.
Be your own independent person.
Sure, it is expected in relationships that you become one with the other.
However, it doesn't mean that you are going to stop living because you want to become one with your partner.
Remember, you've got your own life, your own obstacles to tackle, and your own problems to deal with.
Keep yourself busy, do stuff you normally can't do when your partner is with you.
This way, you are not going to squeeze these things in when both of you are together.
One thing that you could do would be to make a "project".
Make something that you could give to your partner the next time you are going to see each other.
With this, you are going to spend your time wisely while thinking about your other half.
Aside from that, you are going to make him or her happy with your surprise.
Make sure you don't slip your tongue and divulge that secret to them or else it would become totally pointless.
Another thing that you could spend your time on would be with your friends and family.
Go hang out with friends, go on a vacation with your family.
Do things you know you are going to love and you know you can't do with your partner.
This way, you won't keep on thinking about "what ifs".
Doing everything together as in most cases of short distance relationships would sometimes be unhealthy.
Time apart somehow makes couples become better people.
It's not like couples should take a time off from each other, but letting one another grow and developing their own independence brings out the best in them.
In long distance relationships, people are given that moment of "freedom".
It should be used well.
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