If you are like me, you probably want to get your partner back after getting dumped.
You find yourself wondering how you can save the relationship after the breakup.
Take it from me, it is a very real possibility.
It's a pretty safe bet that this won't be easy.
But this is a very real possibility.
As long as your ex has any sort of emotions for you left, there is usually a strong chance that you can get back together.
Any feeling will suffice, not necessarily love.
Even if the two of you are fighting and saying that you hate each other's guts.
Indifference is the true opposite of love, not hatred.
It can take some time, but you can transform any feeling into love.
I won't lie, this is going to be tough.
Right now your relationship is walking that razor's edge between breaking up forever and getting back together.
You'll have to be cautious about how you progress from here.
It might take some will power on your part to turn things around and get your ex back.
First you must fight back every temptation to call, text, email, or otherwise contact your partner.
When someone dumps us, it is human nature to naturally want to get them back.
When you come at your partner from this way of thinking, you'll only end up ruining your odds at getting them back.
Chances are good that your partner ended things with you to get some "space" and let me tell you that bombarding him with phone calls is not giving him space.
As a matter of fact, doing this type of thing only pushes your partner away from you.
For two to four weeks, try to cut off all contact with your partner.
Then when you're ready you can send your ex a quick note apologizing for anything you may have done wrong that led to the breakup.
It takes two people to have a relationship, so in any breakup both people hold at least some responsibility.
If it's not clear how you may have added to the ending of the relationship, then you just need to keep digging a little deeper.
Maybe you weren't supportive enough or maybe you didn't stand up for yourself enough.
Don't do this to beat yourself up, but just to get a better understanding of what happened.
Request that your ex go out with you for coffee so you can catch up with each other.
Don't come off like you're overly eager to see your ex.
Approach the situation like you are simply meeting up with an old friend you haven't seen in a while.
When you meet for coffee try to keep the atmosphere funny and casual.
During the meeting you just want to remind your ex of how much fun the two of you can have together and reignite all the good memories.
Take things slow and don't bring up the topic of getting back together.
You can start to see your ex more often and go on my traditional dates if you think meeting for coffee went well.
It could be something as simple as dinner and a movie.
You'll have to be patient if you want to get back together with your partner after getting dumped.
Try not to rush things and take your time like you would if you were just starting to see someone new.
Steer away of talking about your relationship unless your partner insists on bringing up the matter.
Keep going on dates with your ex as long as things keep developing well.
Before too long your ex will remember what made them fall for you to begin with.
And both you and your partner will be blissfully dating again.