Perhaps you have resigned to the idea that life would be much simpler if you don't attempt to get back with your ex.
Perhaps you are thinking that it is just not worth it.
But at the back of your mind, there is a part of you that desperately wants to reconnect with him or her and bring things back to the way they used to be.
You are just not ready to give up.
You have come so far to just waste it all away.
If you have all these second thoughts hanging around your mind, it all means one thing: you are still in love with your ex.
And you don't want to give it up because it would be a shame that after all that you have been through, after all the moments you have shared, it would just come down to nothing.
Well, here's an advice for you: Don't give up! True love is like a meteor that falls from the sky very rarely.
You would be hard-pressed to find another person that would make you fall in love again.
True love is worth saving.
But then again, you aren't sure as to how to go about chasing your ex.
Well, you don't.
Going after your ex in a very unsubtle manner isn't going to win him or her back.
Desperation gets you nowhere.
A lot of people make this mistake of pushing the envelope and begging their exes to please reconsider the relationship only to realize this isn't the best approach to winning back their lovers.
It's a cat and mouse thing: the more you chase, the more the person scampers to get away from you.
You can increase your chances of reigniting the flame by acting cool about it.
Sounds contradictory, right? Well, it's a strategy that has proven to be effective on many couples who have gone through the same dilemma.
You see, in psychology, a person wants things that are hard to attain.
If you come off 'easy' and very much accessible, your ex is bound to lose interest in you and find someone else to pine for instead.
So you start from making your ex want you by acting like you could care less about him or her.
This also requires time, so it means cutting off all forms of communication for the time being.
Once this period is up, you can start reestablishing communication until both of you are back in each other's arms.