Contrary to what many of the couples getting into marriage nowadays my think, creating what can be termed a successful marriage requires work - plenty of it.
But this work does not have to be difficult work - it simply requires you to have certain information available to you and the willingness to apply said info.
With one in every three marriages failing due to physical incompatibility, infidelity, finances (or the lack of it), and spiritual non conformity, to mention but a few, you are right to be seeking a way to save your marriage.
This article will show you 2 ways to turn things in your marriage around for the better and come out on the other side more successful.
Here goes...
Number 1 - Be Willing to Make Sacrifices for Your Spouse...
You need to make your spouse the point for the marriage and throw away any attitude that points to "me".
The "me" syndrome is simply selfishness on your part and there is no place in your marriage, or anybody's for that matter, for selfishness.
Consider the fact that you and your husband / wife are a team and when you spell the word T.
E.
A.
M.
the letter 'I' is conspicuously missing.
This points to the fact that "there is no place for 'I' in TEAM".
The word 'sacrifice' is once which our generation no longer makes reference to.
Our parents understood that a marriage needs sacrifice to make it work - we do not.
We cannot understand why we need to sacrifice if our spouse loves us.
Follow the sentence; it is all about 'me' 'I' 'my' 'myself' and 'our' 'us' 'we'.
If you were so perfect why then did you get married to someone else? Were you not happy by yourself? How come you did not get married to yourself? The conclusion of the matter is this; be willing to make sacrifices for your husband or your wife.
Instead of seeking to have your own needs met, seek to meet the needs of your partner.
In this way, you both will be caring for each other.
Number 2 - Be Willing to Adjust Where Necessary for Your Spouse...
What does it mean to adjust? Well let us look at the word more closely...
adjust means to alter, to correct, to fine-tune, to bend, to change, to amend, and so on.
Do you see what is required of you if you want to save your marriage which you may feel is doomed towards failure? Now that you know, what are you going to do about it?