So you've been a complete moron by being a two-timing prick, and now your wife wants a divorce.
Can you really blame her? Of course you can't, so do not be surprised if she suddenly wants to leave you.
However, there are 6 steps that can help save you from being divorced.
1.
Admit your fault - Admitting your mistake and taking full responsibility for your action can help you from being forgiven, by your spouse.
Never make any sort of excuse for being unfaithful to your partner.
You will only make your situation with your partner worse.
2.
Loss of trust - Don't be surprised? This is the point where you either break up or fix your marriage.
Before you come to a decision, see first if the marriage is indeed worth saving.
If you really want your partner back, start a plan to get that trust back.
Trust is important in all relationship.
If you have to tell your wife your timetable and meetings every day, so be it.
Anything, you can do to bring back the trust is important.
3.
Never blame your partner - Blaming your spouse for your infidelity, is a definite no.
Excuses are just a way to cover your dishonesty.
Those will never work; what's more you'll just end speeding up the process for your divorce.
Sticking to the truth can make a difference.
4.
The right time to talk is now - Do not wait for things to cool down because they never will.
Talk to your partner about what really happen, why you become unfaithful.
Not talking about what you did, will not resolve anything.
Whatever reasons you might have, it is always best to talk about it.
Not unless you want a divorce? 5.
Second Chance - Should your partner choose to give you a second chance, make the most of it and start working to regain her trust? Just keep in mind that trust cannot be regain immediately so be very patient, it may even take many months before she could trust you again.
6.
Do you want a divorce? - That is the question you need to answer with all honest.
Nevertheless, if you do not want a divorce just make sure to be ready, to do your best in making sure you get your wife back.
And when I say best, it means all possible ways.
If you have to beg, then so be it.
After all, it is your fault, so you probably deserved to be punished.