One of the secrets of attracting women that guys seem to want to know more than anything else is how to make the approach. Now, this makes sense, because everywhere that you go, you can potentially meet new women every single day of the week. Yet, if your approach is weak, or you just don't make the approach, then there is no way that you are ever going to get the chance to date any of these women. You will be limiting yourself and the experience that you could have when it comes to dating.

I will admit that it takes some practice and some experience to get really good at approaching women. But, because so many guys just don't make the effort at all, you don't have to be a "master" at approaching women to get some good results.

Here are 3 keys to making the approach:

1. The longer you think about it, the less likely it is that you will actually approach a woman.

This is one of those "rules" that pretty much applies to everyone. The mind has a funny way of talking us out of doing anything that makes us feel uncomfortable in the slightest, and for most guys, this is exactly what approaching a woman makes them feel. Uncomfortable. You don't want to let yourself get all hung up on thinking things through to the point where you take no action at all. Let your mind go blank and just make your move.

2. If you want to have a woman feel an instant connection when you approach her, pay attention to your body language.

When people first think of communication, they automatically think of talking. Yet, many communication experts will let you know that most of all human communication happens in the form of body language and tone of voice. Not paying attention to either your tone of voice OR your body language can make or break you when it comes to approaching women.

3. You must be able to open the conversation, and try not to be cheesy about it.

Okay, so you have made your move, you have your body language in check, and you walk up to her. Do you know what to say? If you don't, you can end up losing any initial attraction that she felt for you. Cheesy lines are better than nothing, but you should try and work on coming up with some conversation openers that seem relaxed and organic, as this will give off the best vibe to a woman.