The beginning stages of any relationship can be very exciting, but it can also be very daunting because you don't know each other very well and are getting to know one another.
Something that goes through the mind of some men is the question whether a girl is with them for some other reason.
If you start to think that a girl might be using you, then there are few signs that can help you get a clearer idea.
The first thing to look out for is the way a girl reacts after you don't give her what she wants.
Some girls will throw a tantrum, others will be cool.
If your partner always gets furious when she doesn't get what she wants then you might have a problem.
Who her friends are and how they behave with men is also a good indicator of how your girlfriend will be with you, because after all a person is like his friends.
If her friends use men to get what they want then maybe your girlfriend is doing the same to you.
You should also observe how your girlfriend is with other men, if she is always flirting with them and getting them to do things for her then you should watch out.
To be honest if your girlfriend is openly flirting with other men, you have bigger problems in your relationship than being used and you should sort that out first.
If after looking for these signs, you determine that your girlfriend is indeed using you, you should not act quickly and harshly to end the relationship, but instead talk to her and try to rectify the situation.
You should also realise that there is nothing wrong with doing things for your partner, and what we are talking about here is not the normal expected things that partners do for each other.