The first date is coming to a close.
Everything has gone smoothly and she seems to have enjoyed herself, too.
Now you are hoping for a second date.
First impressions are very important, so what happens during the first date is crucial to its success.
Therefore, pay attention to how your date acts and responds during your time together so you can find out her likes and dislikes.
Of course, you had to ask her out to get the first date.
A dating service is one way.
The stereotype is that is for desperate people.
Though most would deny using a dating service, many do browse sites.
A few benefits are that it is easy to use.
Plus, you can meet, so to speak, many prospective dates in a short amount of time by reading their profiles.
You can also filter them according to what you are looking for in a date.
You know that they are looking for a date, too.
So, you are likely to find someone you would want to ask out.
Now you have a date and you know a few things about her.
An enjoyable first date will hopefully lead to a second date.
Plan the date with her desires and tastes in mind.
Ask yourself questions such as, would she like to go someplace that will allow her to dress up or does she prefer jeans and a t-shirt? Would she like to so something physical such as swimming or sedate such as a movie? Remember to be courteous and focused on her so that she will feel special during the time she spends with you.
Even though the first date went well and she enjoyed herself, you still have not locked up the second date.
It is probably not a good idea to mention a second date during the first one.
Do not make her feel rushed or put on the spot.
Wait until you get in touch later.
A good way contact her is by text or phone.
In order to secure the second date, texting is a useful tool.
Because it is an informal type of communication, it has the ability to knock down some of the awkwardness of contacting her for a date.
By text messaging, you can engage in small talk, see how she reacts to some flirting, and eventually test the waters about a second date.
Texting becomes even more fun as your relationship grows.
Another useful device is the phone.
This is a little more formal than texting because of the added dimension of the voice.
It is better to gage how she is really feeling when she talks, but it also shows in your voice if you are nervous.
Usually the man is suppose to wait two days from the first date before calling so he does not appear too eager.
However, you do not want her to wonder if you are interested her or not, causing her undo worry.
When you tell her during the first date that you will give her a call, notice how she reacts and take that in consideration when you decide how long of a wait is prudent.
Also, when you do call, be sure to mention how much you enjoyed the first date.
If you and your date are obviously clicking, you might ask for the second date during the first one.
Be very sure that you are not rushing things.
Though the goal is a second date, there is plenty of time to make arrangements for that later, especially if you are sure she is enjoying your company.
With this information, you now have the basic knowledge to obtaining the second date.
Just keep in mind about first impressions and choosing someone with whom you want to build a relationship.
And you never know, SHE might be asking YOU for the second date.