Do you hope to get your boyfriend back but at times you have your doubts? Do you have a sinking feeling in your heart that it really is over? In spite of everything that you have done to try to save your relationship your boyfriend want none of being in a relationship with you.

Your heart weeps and your body aches for him. Your soul feels empty and you feel as if you will never be quite the same again. You wish and pray for a miracle and for your boyfriend to just show up at the door one day saying that he is sorry. You yearn to hear the words, "I love you" come from his mouth just one more time and you would do anything to be held in his loving arms again.

But answer these questions honestly and see if you are heading in the right direction. See if you are truly being effective in your attempts to get your boyfriend back.

Have You Given Him Space? - You might feel that you have done everything possible to fight for your relationship and get your boyfriend back but have you given him his space to make up his own mind? Yes, you might miss him terribly and crave that contact from him but if you are in regular contact with your ex you are probably hurting your chances of getting him back.

Nobody likes to be pushed and men can be stubborn sometimes, can't they? Try giving him a little space and the opportunity to miss you and come to his own conclusion about the future of your relationship.

Have You Tried to Get Him to Pity You? - Every once in a great while the Pity Tactic can work but it's holding power is typically very short lived. Trying to make your boyfriend feel bad about breaking up with you might get him back but soon he will regret getting back together with you and only wind up dumping you again.

Methods that attract a man and make him value you instead of pity you are more powerful and effective than pity will ever be. By making him come to his own conclusion and seeing the value in you as a woman and a friend are more effective and long lived than the pity that he might have for you, which only makes you appear weak and needy in the long run.

Have You Tried to be Manipulative? - Being outwardly manipulative and using statements such as "nobody will ever love you the way that I do" or "someday I'm going to move on and you'll regret breaking up with me" tend to be ineffective. In his present mental state such statements will only come across as threats and make your man rebel against you. Just like a small child, he will become full of spite and even if he were to begin to feel something for you again he will never show it out of spite.

While subtle forms of manipulation can be extremely effective in helping you to get your boyfriend back, manipulation tactics that are more "in your face" tend to backfire.

If you answered yes to any of these questions you may be prolonging the pain of your breakup by working in the wrong direction. By realizing the error in your ways and making a few changes in your tactics and techniques you really can get your boyfriend back and take control of your relationship.

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