There is an old song about love and relationships. It says something like, -find out what he likes and how he likes it and let him have it just that way.- That pretty much sums it up; that is pretty good dating advice. Do you want him to fall in love with you and make him commit to you? Do you want to find romance and make him your one and only? Decoding male psychology says that you must find out who he is.
Oh, you know who he is, of course. You have checked him out. He is a really nice guy. And there is an attraction between you. But now you want to take it to the next level. So, answer this question: what does he like?
If you want to catch fish, you have to use the right bait. If you want to attract men, it is much the same. Find out what bait he likes.
- Does he like sports? Then learn to enjoy participating in or watching sports. Does he like hiking? Then buy some hiking boots. Does he enjoy movies? Buy a set of tickets and invite him along. Is he a camper? Learn about camping. And so on and so on.
- A word of caution is in order. There should not be a need to lose your own identity in the dating process. He should also be happy to do things you like to do. So do talk about the things he likes to talk about, but also spend some time talking about the things you enjoy. If that is objectionable to him, then he is rather self centered and you may not want to pursue him.
Here are some things that people in general look for in a soul mate: Male psychology and female psychology says that people like someone who can carry on an interesting conversation. So do learn how to do that. Here are some things to consider:
- Spend a sufficient amount of time talking about things the other person enjoys talking about.
- Keep up on world and local events so you have something to say when these subjects come up.
- Look on the positive side of things. Do not talk excessively about gloom and doom and depression. Add cheerful, positive words to your vocabulary.
- Do not complain about your life. If you complain about your life, it will cause the other person to feel like complaining about you. It is a very negative habit and turns people off. If you want to make a guy fall in love, you will not do it with complaints.
- Learn to laugh at things. Do not laugh in a cruel way, of course, but do add laughter to your personality. People love being with someone who can laugh. It makes you attractive and sought after.
- Learn to tell a joke. A joke makes people laugh, and then they appreciate the joke teller. Telling a joke helps us to bond with other people. Go to a website that tells jokes and get a new one every week. Tell it to him (and your friends.) They will love it.
- Get a hobby. Take a class. Learn things. Do things. Go places. These things will add dimension to your personality. They will make you intriguing and interesting. They will give you something to say in social situations.
So, are you looking for Mr. Right? Are you looking for an engagement and marriage and a family? You can find those things. This exercise in decoding male psychology will surely have helped.