Every relationship cannot be smooth.
Most couple have the most violent fights, but if their love for each other is deep enough, they will always patch up.
When fights go out of hand and remain unsolved, what will happen to the relationship? Relationships that are not strong will break, either instantly or gradually over a period of time, if fights are constant and if the fights go unresolved.
However, when it comes to really strong relationships between two people who love each other deeply, due to the amount of affection and trust involved, the relationship goes unscathed.
It is important for both members of every couple to initiate the patching-up process after a fight.
Ego must be avoided at all costs.
Even if the fault is not theirs, by apologizing, they show their partner that the fight is affecting them, and that they cannot be happy as long as their partner is not happy.
This gesture goes a long way in forging the deepest of bonds in every relationship.
Not only is it important to start the patching-up process, but also to take it all the way to the end, till the relationship is back to normal.
No matter how long this takes, it is essential and must be done.
The smallest of fights, if left unresolved, can do terrible, irreparable damage to a relationship.
For men, insecurity, jealousy and possessiveness are the things that usually trigger fights between them and their partners.
Women generally complain that their partners do not give them enough attention, or that they are not being given their space.
Most fights bud off these primary causes.
There could be other reasons as well - general disagreements, dishonesty, breaking promises, etc.
Whatever the reason, what must be kept in mind is that the fight or conflict must be resolved as soon as possible.
Remember, ego is something too materialistic to give up an entire relationship for.
No matter what happens, if you truly love your partner, you must be ready to sacrifice anything in order to save your relationship.
If you show your partner that you really care for your relationship, then that itself will cut down on the number of fights you have!
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